It’s not the first time I saw this gem on X.

But there’s a certain man who relegates himself to two options with women.

1. A man who lacks confidence in himself.

2. A man who compromises and abandons his values.

Let’s take a look at option A.

Option A: Hot but nags all the time

Let’s for a moment ignore the assertion that all hot women nag.

The only question you have to ask is whether nagging is something that aligns with your values.

If not, then this relationship won’t work for you.

And you move on.

Option B: Average but brings you peace

Let’s temporarily ignore the assertion that ‘average’ women are solely the peacemakers of the world.

Do you have ‘average’ in your list of values that you’re looking for in your ideal woman?

I didn’t.

I’m going to go out on a limb here and predict that you don’t either.

But let’s say you settle for Option B.

What happens in the long run?

You’ll eventually kick your own ass for ‘settling’ because you chose a relationship based on false values.

It’ll work out in the short term, but at some point, the relationship will crack.

So what do you choose?

If both options don’t align with Who You Are at your core and what you’re looking for in your ideal woman — you choose neither.

By choosing settling for either option, you’re ignoring the calls of your heart.

You need to know how to quickly recognize the ones that don’t align with your values so that you can quickly move on and find the one that does.

Shoot me a reply if you’re struggling to understand what you’re looking for in your marriage-quality woman and we’ll go from there.

Until next time,

Nikita.