What if you’re obsessed with a woman who doesn’t like you back?

Every man has been in these shoes.

Before I give you my advice, let me tell you that no matter what you do, the outcome will be the same.

But here are your options:

1. Waste your time forcing her to like you

2. Moving on

And the outcome?

You won’t convince her to like you.

But Nikita, you don’t understand — if only she knew…

Nope — it won’t work.

A fulfilling relationship cannot be forced.

A fulfilling relationship requires two people to independently desire it.

If one person’s heart isn’t in it, no amount of mind tricks and convincing will change that.

Let me share two reasons why I know this to be true.

Reason #1 — 3 months turned to 8 years

Years ago, I knew a relationship was wrong only three months in.

My heart knew.

But I stuck with it and kept trying to make it right in my head for years.

8 years later, it fell apart anyway.

Reason #2 — 3 months turned to…another 8 years

I started my career as a petroleum engineer.

3 months in, I knew it wasn’t right.

It took me 8 years to make the jump to another career.

No amount of mental reframing changed what my heart was initially whispering to me.

You can’t force her

Either she likes you or she doesn’t.

So what’s your best option?

You move on.

I know it hurts.

I know it’s scary.

But it’s the only sane way forward.

You can’t rationalize something that goes against your heart’s whispers.

Until later,

Nikita.

Stuck Emotions?

P.S. — If you’re having a hard time letting go, shoot me a reply. I can show you techniques I consistently use to release stuck emotions and get back to a neutral state.

I still use these techniques in my relationships and my work to quickly unblock myself.