Awkward first dates

“We barely talked and it was awkward.”

That’s what every man dreads on the first date.

But here’s the question — why do first dates turn awkward?

Awkwardness happens when you’re unclear about why you’re there.

Once you understand why you’re going on the first date, there are only two outcomes.

• alignment (schedule next date)

• non-alignment (move on)

If values don’t add up, there’s no awkwardness — It’s just a clear NO.

And thirty minutes later you’re out of there.

But you do need to go in there knowing exactly what to look for and recognize the signs that warrant a second date.

When you know what to do, you’re not wasting time chit-chatting about random things that don’t indicate whether she’s a match.

And you’re not stumped for words either because you know the major themes to hit to see whether she’s aligned with your values.

I made a First-Dates bonus section for the TruValues Workshop that I’ll be hosting on October 9th, 2024.

After we uncover the values that truly matter to you in your marriage-quality woman, I’ll show you how to strategically apply them to your first dates.

You’ll know how to steer conversations like a pro — knowing where to take them to recognize whether you should schedule a second date or simply move on.

You’ll know how to match her responses to the values you’ve picked out — so that you quickly know whether she’s a good match for a fulfilling relationship or not.

When you go on first dates with a map of the territory, it makes finding what you’re looking for painless.

When you go without a clue, you never know what you’re gonna get.

And in the words of the famous meme — “Ain’t nobody got time for that”.

I’m closing the workshop registration in 9 days.

See you there.

Nikita.