Are high-value women out of your league?

Why a tiny percentage of men attract beautiful, loyal, and emotionally stable women — and it's not because of genetics.

Let's face it — today's dating world is about as straightforward as trying to thread a needle while riding the world's tallest roller coaster.

Dating apps like Tinder and OkCupid promised to open up a huge pool of available women, right at your finger tips.You'd send messages back and forth, meet up, and sure enough — you'd find the woman you could show off to your friends and family — the one that is truly a keeper.Problem solved....and I've got a prime oceanfront property in a desert to sell you.The reality is a cruel mistress.The reality is that most men are utterly stumped by what truly attracts high-quality women.And it's not their fault.Society and culture give us half-broken ideas that look good on paper but are useless in the real-world.Most men are desperately begging for swipes in an over-saturated dating market.If you manage to get a swipe, it might lead to a message.If you get to a message, once in a blue moon, it leads to a date.When the stars align and you get a date, it often leads to high expectations and straight up disappointment.So you repeat this cycle a few times to realize one important lesson — you'd have to be a self-hating masochist to continue going down this rabbit hole of pain.It's insane to continue hurting yourself when it feels like your chances of winning with women are worse than winning a lotto jackpot.But there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Men that are cut from a different cloth

While it's true that the dating market is over-saturated with frustrated men running on a hamster wheel, spending a whole lot of energy, and getting scraps in return — there's something you're not seeing.What's missing from your view is the small percentage of men who never got on the hamster wheel.These few men aren't playing by the same rules as most men that fail with women.No, these select men are cut from a different cloth — and women can instinctively sense it.The truth is that top-tier, high-value women can't help but seek these men out.These men have the X-Factor — a magnetic force that pulls exceptional women into their lives.Women can't exactly pinpoint what the X-Factor is but they say these handful of men have the following traits:- confident
- sharp looking
- having a sense of humor
- strong
- successful
- easy goingThe men with the X-Factor play the dating game with a cheat code.They get the girl, and not just any girl — they get the top 20% of attractive high-value women — the ones that most men struggle to attract into their lives.You might think that these X-Factor men are blessed by the genetics lotto, and that's the end of the story.Here's what you might not know, and it's actually good news for people like you and me.

Genetics only play a tiny role

You might be surprised to learn that genetics play a much smaller role than you think.How often have you seen an attractive woman with a normal looking guy, not much different than you, and asked yourself — how the hell did he get her?It wasn't solely his genetically perfect looks or deep resonant voice that attracted her.Depending on genetics is a losers game. It is only one piece of the X-Factor puzzle and it is not enough by itself.Genetics is a lever we can't control. What nature gave us is exactly what we have to work with. We have to play the hand we're dealt.But that doesn't mean you're screwed — and here's why.

Genetics is just one small lever of the X-Factor that attracts high-quality women.The rest of these X-Factor levers are fortunately within our control ONLY when we understand what they are, and how to use them to our advantage.Archimedes once said — Give me a lever and a place to stand and I will move the earth.That means once you recognize how to effectively use these levers to your advantage, you'll no longer be clueless and running on a hamster wheel.You'll understand how to cultivate the X-Factor in yourself — so that striking women will be drawn to you rather than you having to desperately chase them.Here is where I want to reveal the core principal that makes up the X-Factor — the engine that makes it work.This core principal enables all the levers within the X-Factor which leads to succeeding with high-quality women.

The Core Principal behind the X-factor

When a woman is irresistibly attracted to a man that she describes as confident, strong, and secure in who he is — what is the one core principal behind each of these traits?We know that these traits are included in the X-Factor, but what is the one driving force behind them?It's one word — Authenticity.Authenticity is powerful because it is instinctively felt by men and women, and it is extremely difficult to fake.In fact, anything that is valuable in this world has authenticity behind it.For instance, take the US dollar bill. Why is it so valued around the world? Because it is trusted for it's buying power and it is difficult to fake.When you hold a dollar in your hand, you naturally assume it's genuine and authentic, not a fake.That's exactly what makes authenticity highly attractive to women.Authenticity is hard to fake.Authenticity cannot be bought.Authenticity can be learned, expressed, and offered to attractive high-value women — once you learn how to harness it.And best of all — they'll love you for it.The men who neglect authenticity by pretending and memorizing techniques end up failing to attract high-quality women.Why?Because it's difficult to convincingly fake a persona over the short-term and impossible to do it over the long-term.And women can instinctively sense authenticity through a man's behavior. The men that are missing the X-Factor — that is built upon authenticity — show inconsistent behavior.Women quickly sense an unmistakable feeling that something is off about this man. That something is not quite right with him. That he's creepy.It's like listening to a song where the melody doesn't match the lyrics.High-value women instinctively use their authenticity-radar to sense which men have the X-Factor.And beautiful high-value women are pulled to authentic men like bees to honey.Think about it.An authentic man lives through his heart — paving a path for himself that feels honest to him.He has the courage to craft his identity from his values, experiences, and convictions — and he's not afraid to share these with the rest of the world.An authentic man gracefully embraces his strengths but acknowledges his weaknesses without shame.He is not easily put down or swayed by the opinions of others, especially if these opinions go against what he knows is true in his heart.Do you now see how traits such as confident, sharp looking, and secure are infused with authenticity?Here's the thing — once you understand the building blocks that make up the X-Factor, you'll no longer be clueless about what women want — and you'll naturally radiate the X-Factor without thinking about it.More than that, you'll unlock the keys to attracting high-quality women into your life.I was once in the same shoes as most men running blind on the dating treadmill.It took me over a decade of my life to uncover what the X-Factor was.It took me years of real-world experimentation to finally piece together the most effective and practical system for attracting high-quality women into my life.I systematically put these principles together into The Authentic Approach.

How The Authentic Approach Changed my Life

My name is Nikita.For over a decade, I was confused — unsure of what high-quality women really wanted.As a 13 year old kid, I was looking for affection from women but in all the wrong places.Hormones kicked in and like any other boy going through puberty, I wanted girls to like me.On one sunny day in Brooklyn, while riding bikes with my friends, one of my pals — Stan — met up with us.Stan had a huge smile on his face because he just listened to a radio segment where Ross Jeffries — the father of seduction at the time — explained that women could be seduced with specific techniques.I was instantly hooked.That was the moment in my life that would color how I'd view women for the next decade.I spent over 10 years of my life following pick up artists, reading seduction forums and ebooks in the hopes of succeeding with women.I've tried all sorts of techniques including:- seduction techniques
- nlp / hypnosis techniques
- pickup lines
- shit test antidotes
- negging
- qualifying
- being domineering...and a whole lot more.And you know what? In the short-term, these techniques absolutely worked.But there was a HUGE catch.It's what pickup artists don't tell you about using pickup techniques.Here's where pickup techniques led me towards a dead-end.

Catch #1 — I was faking it

Pick up techniques are like fast food — okay in the short-term but a dead-end in the long run.Relying solely on techniques to attract women is an attempt to hide who you really are in order to pretend to be a person women might like.The problem was that I imitating someone else's identity and hiding my own.The techniques worked, but on the inside, I felt like a fraud.I couldn't be authentically ME.I couldn't escape the emptiness.Faking a persona was eating away at my soul. It was slowly chewing away my identity — and I hated myself for it.I wasn't naturally a jerk but some of these techniques required I play one. It felt wrong in my heart.I couldn't keep doing this long-term.Here's the biggest lesson I learned during this period of my life.If you ever want to take your relationships long-term, techniques by themselves won't get you there.High-quality women will absolutely sense that you're pretending through their instinctive authenticity-radar — and that's exactly how relationships crash and burn.This brings me to another downside of using pickup techniques.If high-quality women run away from men who pretend, what kind of women does that leave you with?

Catch #2 — Attracting low-quality women

Pickup artists will promise you the ability to attract ANY beautiful woman into your life (spoiler alert — it's not possible).What they neglect to tell you is the kind of women manipulating techniques tend to attract.High-value women, those with confidence and depth, quickly see through manipulating techniques and pretense.As a result, you end up attracting women who are battling with their own insecurities and emotional problems.These women, like you, also pretend to be someone they are not in order to find a man that will love them.Now you're like two mirrors facing each other and reflecting insecurity and insincerity towards each other.Eventually, that ends up with horrible fights, breakups, and your eventual disgust with the entire dating scene.

Crafting the authentic approach

So I was with my long-term girlfriend for many years. It was a rocky on-and-off relationship.When I found the courage to break it off, I was back to square one in the dating world.And I knew that dating was going to suck.Here's where I lucked out.I accidentally stumbled upon two mentors that blew my mind and redefined everything I knew about dating.I started with a clean slate.I dropped the memorized routines, the pick up lines, and the techniques I had learned before.I began to approach dating through a mindset of authenticity, honesty, and vulnerability.No more pickup lines.In fact, I said almost the same exact thing when I approached women, no matter the location.I expected to get terrible results.Instead, I was shocked when positive results started piling in and high-value women began to appear in my life.As a result, I threw out 90% of what I learned through pick up — the pick up lines, clever tactics, and the manipulative techniques.As a result, my confidence skyrocketed because I was coming from a place of genuine authenticity.Of course, not all of the relationships worked out. Still, even those relationships were with high-quality women. It's just that we weren't the best fit for each other and we went our different ways.I now understood what the X-Factor was.I further refined the principles that made up the X-Factor through genuine interactions with real women rather than through abstract theories or academic jargon.I systematized these principles into The Authentic Approach.The biggest side-benefit I found from The Authentic Approach is its ability to quickly filter out the crazies and the manipulative women that will make your life hell.The Authentic Approach principles finally led me to the destination I was looking for in the first place.I was looking to find my life-long partner.

Marriage and Family

The Authentic Approach brought me to the wonderful woman who is today my wife.I'm a husband and a father.And guess what — authenticity is a fundamental building block that powers both — short-term and long-term relationships.It is the same principle I use as a husband in our marriage to keep it thriving.The Authentic Approach works whether you're actively dating or if you're building upon an existing relationship.

Your Next Moves

The truth is that women are starving for REAL and AUTHENTIC men.You don't need to spend 10 years in a pickup world like I did — pretending to be someone you're not.With an Authentic Approach, you no longer need to:- fake a personality
- memorize lines
- memorize BS tactics
- overthink everythingI can help you cut through the fluff, because I've been through it and have navigated my way out.You can continue playing the relationships game with women on hard mode, but why do that?The Authentic Approach is the practical and reliable system that will help you attract wonderful, attractive, high-quality women into your life so that you can have a deep and fulfilling relationship with them.Let me help you save valuable time so that you can get to attracting high-quality women into your life.